开启：
sudo /System/Library/CoreServices/RemoteManagement/ARDAgent.app/Contents/Resources/kickstart -activate -configure -access -on -clientopts -setmenuextra -menuextra yes -privs -all -setvnclegacy -vnclegacy yes
关闭：
sudo /System/Library/CoreServices/RemoteManagement/ARDAgent.app/Contents/Resources/kickstart -deactivate -configure -access -off
但会提示：
Warning: macos 10.14 and later only allows control if Screen Sharing is enabled through System Preferences.
能不能成，还是要看运气！！！